Being true to yourself is the best thing you can do. Your self is your companion. That is why it is essential to understand the complexity and paradox of you. It is somewhat challenging but the result is beneficial. How ironic, understanding and discovering your self is difficult. Possibly because you are afraid to know what lies within. You are afraid to uncover your own ghost and weakness. We are all afraid to discover the reason why, we are acting like that or feeling this way. Tracing the root is sometimes very painful. But, it is the only way so that we can understand the concept of our self.
Actually, unlocking the mystery of our self needed continuous discovery because as a human we are dynamic. We do not remain in that way. Our experiences changes our perspectives and even our behavior. Still, our dominant personality will remain no matter what changes we undergo and I think it’s beautiful. That is our trademark and makes us different from the rest. So, patience is also vital. We need to be patient with ourselves. We should not give up on ourselves. Also, no matter what other people tell you, it will never ever define who you are as a person. Don’t mind them especially, if they only pointing negative aspect of you or underestimating or even discouraging you. You are the only who is capable to know the truth about you. Their words won’t matter as long as you know your own concept. They will just like a bees that buzz negative things. They are buzzing because you are too sweet. Don’t believe on the naysayers. Believe in you. Yes, be confident and be you. You are more than what they are saying. Learn to love yourself as well.
It may difficult on first attempt but later on, you can fully understand yourself and you won’t be afraid to face your own ghost and you will use your weaknesses as an opportunity to build strong self-concept. Because you are the one who is in charge in making the concept of your self.