The Unpredictability of Humans

As I fall into another realization. Truly, we can’t fully fathom and understand the complexity of humans. One thing I love about humans, they are unpredictable and capable to learn. Though they are unpredictable they are dynamic. We can’t put them into a specific spectrum because their potentials are vast. Humans are capable of change. Humans are unique and beautiful.

Every single day, humans are changing and growing. However, there are underlying factors that affect their growth. Unforeseen circumstances that hinder their potential. It is not their fault. We cannot use their inappropriate choices and decisions because they are also victims of circumstances.

I personally believe that humans are basically good. Humans are innately good.

We as humans, are capable of making greater decisions and we can consciously make an effort to make better choices in life. It just happens that we are not given proper chance and better reality. Some are in a good place and that is not their fault either.

We may be in a good or bad place. We must all strive to be a better person each day.

Well, there are times that we fall short and that’s okay. It’s okay to feel bad. Our emotions are coming from different places and there are stories in every pain; in every anger that we feel.

Acknowledging the negative things is good. It’s okay to be vulnerable and be fragile. We are not okay all the time and that’s the truth.

There are times that my emotions get the best of me. I tend to be impulsive, react negatively to situations and people but I’m allowing myself to be like that. Then, I forgive myself for my shortcomings and strive to be much better.

I usually acted badly because of my steaming emotions. When in fact, I only know my side and I never get the chance to understand other people. I have no idea where they are coming from, their stories, and uniqueness.

They also have their story just like I do. I only know a portion of them and I react only to that part.

I’m still learning and growing. I’m not much better than everyone else. I know nothing. But, I know that I can be the best version of myself. So, I can understand that everyone has their own stories and it’s okay if I don’t understand everything about the complexity of being a human.

Because as a human, I’m unpredictable and dynamic.

Everyday is a learning opportunity.


Published by She Writes

She's a dreamer. Hopes to be lost in oblivion but the truth is, she just wants to be seen and heard. In quest within and lover of life. This, too, shall pass so I will keep going ; I still don't know. I'll rest for the mean time.

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